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Monday, November 30, 2009

Sex Toys-Helping Improve Sex Life

Hope that everyone had a great weekend and that they managed to burn off their turkey dinners in the most enjoyable way possible, wink wink. I found a great article that gives a great primer on sex toys and is the perfect read for anyone who is interested in sex toys but does not really no much about them. Don't forget to visit Sex4Couples to discover great ways of improving sex for couples.


Whether you’re looking to add some excitement to the bedroom or fill the hole of an absent sexual partner, a great way of doing either is through the use of sex toys.

If you can imagine it, then it is more than likely it exists. From sex furniture to novelty toys, the human mind has conceived everything. Sex toys come in a variety of categories for both men and women.

For starters there are a wide variety of toys that are created specifically for foreplay. Edible underwear and erotic dusts are some of the top selling items across the country. Products such as these are great ways of ensuring that you and your partner both have an enjoyable time.

But for those looking to take things to the next level, whips and handcuffs are a great way of doing so. Just make sure to remember your safe word or you might soon find your experience turning from pleasure to pain all to quick.

Some sex toys are a bit more literal in their meaning. There are a vast amount of different sex based games available to couples. Dice and card games are the most common, but others such as board games are also available.

In the world of sex toys, most tend to associate the term with female devices such as dildos and various vibrators. However there are a large amount of toys designed specifically for male stimulation.

Many of the male sex toys available take the form of mock vaginas, affectionately referred to as “pocket pu**ies.” But there are toys designed after mouths for those more geared towards an oral fixation.

The most recognizable of all, however, is the Fleshlight created by Interactive Life Forms. The Fleshlight is named for the flesh like material that it is made from, as well as the size and shape that bares a striking resemblance to a flashlight.

Over the past few years this product has become one of the most sought after sex toys available to men. With over 2 million units sold, the Fleshlight is one of if not the highest selling male sex toy in the industry. With numbers like that it's hard to argue against the effectiveness of the Fleshlight.

Perhaps what makes the Fleshlight so popular is its customizability. Like many other products, such as dildos and vibrators, the Fleshlight comes in a variety of colors. But it doesn't end there.

Customers of the Fleshlight can choose from five different types of orifices depending on their preference. The five options are the lady (a full sized vagina), the mouth, the butt, the mini maid (a scaled down option of doggystyle), and the stealth, which doesn’t look like any human orifice but allows men to get some satisfaction discretely.

After selecting which opening they would like, customers then decide upon the texture for the interior of their Fleshlight. The options for textures are even more numerous then the orifices. Wonder wave, super ribbed and speed bump are only a few of the many choices available to its customers.

With all the success that the Fleshlight has had, it's no wonder that Interactive Life Forms has found ways to expand upon the Fleshlight hype. One such way is with their line of Fleshlight motion products.

The Fleshlight motion line is a series of mounts for ones Fleshlight. Tagged as "The ultimate hands free experience," the mounts come in a several different positions, such as the Double Dog Dare and On A Mission. Interactive Life Forms also states that Fleshlight motion products are an excellent way of building ones stamina.

So whether it's an edible pair of undies or a flashlight shaped vagina, sex toys are a great way of improving your sex life and making sure you get the most bang for your buck.

Visit Sex4Couples for a great selection of adult toys, movies, games and more.

Friday, November 27, 2009

Time to Burn Off That Turkey!

I hope that all of you in the US had a wonderful Thanksgiving but it is time to burn of those turkey dinners with a good passionate evening of sex! Need some ideas? Visit Sex4Couples and discover some new ways to have fun in the bedroom, or any other room for the matter!

Since it is Black Friday for all you shoppers out there that means it is now time to start thinking about Christmas! What better than the gift of better sex for couples? Stop by Sex4Couples and put together your wish list or buy something special of the lover in your life.

Have a great weekend everyone and get busy burning off those turkey dinners!

Monday, November 23, 2009

Introducing Sex Toys

If you have ever been interested in sex toys but not really sure how to introduce them into your relationship then this article will hopefully be some help. Sex4Couples is another site you should check out for a great selection of sex toys, guides, lubes, movies and more. So go ahead check this article out and then head over to Sex4Couples and see just how many cool things there are for you to introduce!

Source: Introducing Sex Toys into a Relationship
Ah, new relationships -- blissful -- yet they can be tricky.
You've got to ask yourself all of those important questions, like: "whose house to sleep at tonight?" "when should he/she meet my parents?" And of course, "how do I introduce my new partner to my favorite vibrator?" Your sex toys may have become your tried and true friends. Outlasting most of your relationships and definitely keeping you company when you are sans partner. So here are some suggestions to help the introductions go smoothly.

Start Slow

Don't scare him or her off by worshipping your toy. It is more important to be focused on your partner than an inanimate object. After a few rewarding sessions of sex without the help of a sex toy start considering how you might broach the subject. Many partners are intrigued if not turned on by the use of sexual enhancements but don't make any assumptions.

Bringing it up
You can easily figure out how your partner feels about toy use by dropping a few hints or asking point blank. Have they ever used toys before? If so, what kind? Opening a dialogue can help take the guesswork out of it. Creating a sense of openness about sexuality in general will help to create a safe environment to explore. Rather than dropping the bomb while he/she is reading the morning paper, leave some erotica out or suggest an adult movie where toys are used. The Many Joys of Sex Toys is a subtle or not so subtle suggestion.

Resistance
If there is some resistance on your partners part, negotiate an agreement. There are the occasional people who take offense to their partner using a toy. It may be a matter of slowly incorporating them into toy use as a couple or just agreeing to disagree and still using toys for masturbation without your partner. If this concern comes up it is important to let your partner know that your toy is not a threat to him/her or your relationship.

Get it out in the open.
Shop for a new toy together There may be an assumption that old toys = use with old partners. So plan a shopping spree. You can shop online together. This way you are both involved.

Start looking for your new sex toy at Sex4Couples and starting down your path of better sex for couples today!

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

More Sex = Better Sex = Stronger Relationship

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Monday, November 16, 2009

Discussing Sex Exploration

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Friday, November 13, 2009

The Perfect Day for Sex

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Tuesday, November 10, 2009

Better Sex for Couples-Communicate People!!!

So if you have been following this blog at or have checked out Sex4Couples.info all you know that I am all about getting people to have better sex. There are many ways to do say as you have read, sex games, sex toys, lubes, toys, and new positions to name a few.

Whether you are introducing sex toys, games, positions the main thing people need to understand is that communication is the key. You don't just want to introduce a sex toy just before you start getting it on. The results may not be what you want.

Open lines of communication are the key to successfully improving your sex life and being able to try new things. Remember this, practice this and stay open with one another. Express your desires, do research together and let things take their natural progression.

Check out Sex4Couples.info for a great place to review some sex toys, movies, sex guides, different positions and more. Try new things together and take your sex life to the next level!

Until next time...

Sunday, November 8, 2009

Have You Tried Sex Toys? Why Not?

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Friday, November 6, 2009

It's all About Having Better Sex-Right?

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Wednesday, November 4, 2009

The Wonderful World of Lube

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Monday, November 2, 2009

Sex Toys-A Good Read As To Why People Should Own Them

If you have been visiting my blog or Sex4Couples.info you know that I am a big big fan of sex toys. I think everyone should have them, couples and solo's, and to prove that I am not alone read this great article for a good primer from some students at MIT on why so sex toys kick ass....

Sex Toys: Your New Best Friend
By Christine Yu, Lena Chen, and “Hand Solo”
October 30, 2009
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I’m as big a fan of self-love as a newly sexually-awakened postpubescent, but sometimes a couple digits just won’t do. That’s when I reach for my favorite vibrator made by Fun Factory, a German sex toy company. Before I came across their nifty invention, I’d tried a lot of toys that left me feeling dissatisfied, so I resorted to masturbation without technological enhancements. Though it’s cheaper and equally pleasurable (especially if you’re familiar with your own body and nimble with your fingers), masturbation alone can get boring and sex toys can add variety to the bedroom. Some women have a difficult time reaching orgasm and can get closer to their goal with the aid of a toy. For me, finding the right vibrator made me realize that sex toy shopping is a little bit like playing Goldilocks. You have to find the toy that’s juuuust right and there are a lot of factors that come into play!

According to The Tech’s Sex Survey, 13 percent of all MIT students have a sex toy. Overall, 16 percent of MIT women have toys. However, this statistic is as low as 6 percent for the females in the freshman class, whereas it shoots up to 26 percent for the females in the senior class. These numbers argue that sex toys become more prevalent as students go through their MIT career, and whether you’re a virgin or one-half of a couple, you can integrate toys into your sex life and use them to get better acquainted with your (and your partner’s) body and preferences. To protect your health and prolong the life of your product, keep in mind the following when purchasing and using:

Cost: Good toys aren’t cheap, but they don’t have to be outrageously expensive either. All of the products reviewed below are well-known brands carried by reputable retailers like Babeland, which only sell quality toys. Though it might be hard to justify spending triple digits (at some point, you’re really just paying for the brand), there’s a huge difference between a $15 plastic dildo made in China and a $60 silicone one that comes with a warranty. If the price makes you wince, it’s better to skip toys altogether. No vibe is preferable to a toxic vibe.

Material: Silicone toys cost more, but they’re hypoallergenic, easy to clean, and as close as you can get to the real thing. Rubber/jelly and latex toys are less expensive but are also porous, which makes them difficult to disinfect, and may contain phthalates, a common rubber softener which has been correlated with negative health consequences. Toys are also made out of hard materials like plastic, glass, and aluminum (used in Tantus’ Revolve and JimmyJane’s Little Chroma).

Safety: Toys made of rubber, latex, or jelly are porous and harder to clean (see below) so I highly recommend using a condom with penetrative toys made of these materials. In general, however, condoms are a good idea because they act as a barrier against toys with materials that contain allergens (latex) or dangerous chemicals (phthalates). Condoms are an absolute necessity if you’re sharing toys with a partner and if you’re switching between vaginal and anal penetration.

Lubrication: As always, don’t forget to lube up, especially if you don’t get wet on your own. Remember to keep the silicone lube away from your silicone toys or you’ll destroy the surface of the latter. Stick to the water-based stuff, which is safe for all materials, or use saliva when in a pinch (It’s better than nothing!).

Care: To prolong their lifespan, don’t put off cleaning your toys. Most toys will do fine with a warm water rinse accompanied by anti-bacterial soap, but rubber, latex, and jelly toys are more porous than silicone so they require extra rinsing to get rid of excess soap. If you want to make sure your toys are squeaky clean, silicone and glass products without electrical parts can be boiled or run through a cycle in the dishwasher (stick them in the top shelf, though)

Broaden you sexual boarders today and get your own sex toys, please check out Sex4Couples.info for a great selection of toys, movies, sex guides and much more, I'll be posting again soon